Deflection

As I grew up here in the heart of America’s Dairyland, June is Dairy month. (For those of you that are not aware, both of my parents grew up on dairy farms.) It is a time when the corps are in the field and alfalfa is being cut in the fields. Want the cows are pregnant, their milk productions is down. As for the farmers, it is a time that they can relax a bit from the stressful 365-day work load. June is a chance for the dairy farmers to celebrate their daily-year long profession. But, starting this year, we learn of people that are suffering from mental health issues that are being celebrated that are a far cry from the innocent dairy cow.

As for my family, Pride Month take a very dark look at untreated human mental health issues, since we have had two homosexual cousins commit suicide. With their deaths, I have taken a deeper look at their lives, the events that lead to their deaths, comments from others with homosexual family members, and my own research, as I would imagine any conscientious family member would, after such tragic events taking place in our own families. By writing about any tragic family events, I will not get into the details, but I will cover the philosophy my observation and information that I have obtained on homo sexuality. Therefore, after our family has gone through these tragic events, it seems like we are in good position to express our feelings and cover the wrong directions that this country is taking with this tragic topic.

By looking at any one that is homosexual, there seems like something bad went wrong in there live as they were growing up. To give a simple explanation of something that can go wrong in a boys life, they grow up with an alcoholic father. Although the father may, or may not, be abusive, the father was not there for his son. The son is to young to understand the affects of the father’s physical disease. To get even with the father, the son learns about homosexual activities from others and engages in homosexual activities to get even with his dad, if he is ever found out by others. Although this is a sad story, it came be a true story with alcoholic parents.

Regarding the example above, the big word here is that the son was doing homosexual activity in spite of his dad. The spite carry a lot of weight here. Carry on homosexual actives behind the parents back and knowing that the parents would be deviated if they ever found out about their cynical activities. With this type of drive by the son to get even with his dad, there can only be bad circumstances down the road. But, if the son was found out, then the power of his actives would be devastating to the parents and he would feel justified by his actions. The power of the word spite here, with the son getting even with his parents, is overwhelming, with tons of feelings being experienced by each of the family members. This can make a highly explosive situation.

To take this issue to the next step, with the son not being found out as a minor, but still engaged in homosexual activities. Let’s suppose that the son has homosexual activities with a minor. This can be a common situation. Without going into any details, one can only imagine what happens when the son is served court documents for his conduct. Now the feelings of spite are, again, overwhelming.

I will continue with the son of an alcoholic father, since this would be a common circumstance. But this was not the issues with the death of my two cousins. As with every homosexual case that I found, the theory is the same, being driven with a case of spite behind the backs of the ones that really care about the person engaging on homosexual activities. The case of Prince Harry, from England, is the same case of spite, as we have seen in his book, Spare. He wrote it in spite of his family. But, if one takes a close look at what he has wrote, it is basically his feels for being the second oldest son that is common with all second oldest sons. Furthermore, by losing is mother at a young age, he is probably also suffering form post traumatic stress disorder. With his feelings being distorted, it would have been better if he had spent time with a councilor to show him that he an important part of the Royal Monarchy.

As with the son feeling abandoned by his dad and not understanding that alcoholism is a physical disease, the son needed a psychological counselor to give him an understanding of his dad’s illness. The problem is that by the time that others find out that the son is having issues by being abandon by his dad, the son has engaged in unpopular activities. This is an issue that our military faces with suicides of veterans. For years, the VA hospital has been giving out suicide hot long numbers to call. But, by the time that a veteran is ready to commit suicide, the hot line is too late. As was written in the last American Legion magazine, the military personnel are being scanned as they leave military life. And this makes sense, since mental health need to be caught early. As with a child growing up with alcoholic parents, it seems like they need to be scanned, but probably will not happen in our independent world.

It should be noted that in the previous military medical handbooks, it was written that homosexuals should be removed from the military. (In the comedy movie, No Time For Sargents, there was a test to see if the soldier was homosexual and the character actor playing the part of a soldier, Don Knots, was not.). To be blunt, the military was focused on military personnel to focus on the military mission and not be distracted by other activities.

As I grew up, the transexuals were to be feared. In 1980, I was with a group returning from the Polynesian Center very late in the evening. Since the street were bare, the Hawaiian driver decided to drive through downtown Honolulu. When she saw a transexual on the sidewalk, she stated something like, and you think that she is a she, then she laughed in the PA system in the bus and her voice radiated through out the whole bus as she put the pedal to the metal, since she was stopping for nothing. But it was clear at that time that these people were suffering from a mental health issue, since they were calling for attention from the general public.

Today the transsexuals are in the news more than ever. In the case of criminal justice, men are becoming transexuals so that they can serve their time with the women and molest and have sex with the women. In sports, boys are becoming transexuals so that they can be in the girls locker rooms and out preform the girls to win all the medals. It makes you kind of wonder why there is even girls sports, since it really should be the transexuals sports. Now, the Target store has bathing suits for small boys to hid their penises. There is one big problem with what is going on here, since a person does not fully develop their brain until they are like twenty-five years old. So, if they have become transexuals before their brain is fully developed, how are they going to reverse physical changes that they have made to their bodies? This is for someone other than me to answer.

It is wrong to take someone that is suffering from mental illness and exacerbate their mental illness. Their mental illness should be treated and never glorifed to the world. To make these people feel that they are the greats people in the world, is only a negative contribution to our society and will only lead to negative affects on our society.

What do the leaders and politicians have to gain for this pride issue? Will a politician gain votes if they state that they are for pride? Maybe in some local areas the support pride, but, as Budweiser has found out, the whole society will not support prides, since they are losing customers in other countries. Why is mental health not being supported in our society? As a society, we should support mental health, but the treatment for mental heath is up to the individual. But, with Pride Month, poor mental health is being glorified. Therefore, our society is taking a big hit in the wrong direction.